Obtaining military spouse Id being illegal?

I am married to an active solider, I am illegal and I was wondering how can I obtain my military spouse ID? I need this to start my residency process but because I am not legal in the US I cannot obtain my military spouse ID. Is there any way I can obtain two forms of ID's so that I am able to obtain my spouse Id. I only have my Matricula Consular ID Card from Mexico, but they need a DL or ID from US. Help, what can I do?